Hello friends! I’m sharing with you a tutorial for DIY cocktail napkins or any kind of napkin for that matter. But first, the backstory.

My grandmother moved in with my family when I was about 4 years old and spent the last 12 years of her life traveling the world with our Navy family.  To say we were spoiled by having Grandma live with us is an understatement.  

Her never-ending passion was baking…enough said.  It wasn’t until after her death when I was 16 that we had store-bought bread in our home.  Her pies, cookies, and baklava were legendary.  The fierce combo of my mom and grandma ensured we had a kitchen that was sparse of processed foods. 

Grandma’s other passion was embroidery and crochet.  Not only did I fill my belly with her hand made goodies, but I laid my head down each night on pillowcases that she embroidered and sewed her crocheted lace on.  

We were a paperless kitchen well before it was an environmental issue. Grandma and mom outfitted each kitchen with coordinating fabric napkins and grandma made and embroidered several of our tablecloths. Now that I think of it, they were Martha before Martha was Martha!

Grandma baking cookies...as usual.
Grandma baking cookies…as usual.

I am the logical extension of my mom and grandma.

They instilled in me the appreciation nice linens, that whole functional aesthetics thing.  I have a great collection of cloth and linen napkins that we use instead of paper.  

Some I’ve bought locally, others I’ve picked up on our travels.  I love sitting down to dinner with the napkins I bought at the Louvre Museum Shop, in a little village I passed through when hiking through Alsace-Lorraine or at World Market for that matter.  

My fabric cocktail napkins stash has been looking a bit tired, so I decided to get busy and make some fabric napkins, including these DIY cocktail napkins.  I found a nice neutral linen at my local JoAnn’s Fabric Store and went to work.  

I’m not even close to a seamstress;  if I can do this, so can you.  I’m also working on my other Grandma’s 30+-year-old sewing machine, so while you do need a sewing machine, you don’t need a fancy one.  

Since I’m still in my ‘put a crochet border on it’ phase, I did add a very simple border.  I timed the process and you can produce a napkin from start to finish in about 2 and 1/2 hours.  

After figuring out the process, what I did was spend some time cutting, ironing and sewing the cocktail napkins and then my napkin stash was portable, so I could do the hand-sewing and crochet anywhere.  

Finished Cocktail Napkins

How to DIY Cocktail Napkins:

What you need to make 4 10″ square linen/fabric cocktail napkins:

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For the body of the napkins:

  • Cut your fabric into 11.5″ squares.  I don’t have a cutting board with gridlines, but I wish I had something like this after doing this little project. Straight lines make everything so much easier!  Think I’m going to invest in one as I see myself making many of these for gifts and the wavy lines on my ironing board just make the whole process harder!
  • Turn over 1/4 inch on each side and iron down.  Using spray starch helps keep the fold pressed
  • Then turn over 1/2 inch on each side, pressing down with starch.
  • Unfold your 1/2 seam and, using your disappearing ink pen, mark at the point of the fold.
    Love nice linen? Sew some linen cocktail napkins and add a crochet edge to make them special. Great gifts or for your own linen stash. Instruction for sewing and adding crochet edge.
  • For each corner, fold your fabric with right sides together, matching the folds made with your 1/2″ turn.
    Love nice linen? Sew some linen cocktail napkins and add a crochet edge to make them special. Great gifts or for your own linen stash. Instruction for sewing and adding crochet edge.
  • Using your disappearing ink, mark along a fold line from the dot.  Then measure 1/2″ from where the line meets the edge of your fabric and put a dot there.  Draw a line connecting the 2 dots.
    Love nice linen? Sew some linen cocktail napkins and add a crochet edge to make them special. Great gifts or for your own linen stash. Instruction for sewing and adding crochet edge.
  • Pin the fabric down and sew along the diagonal line, making sure you reverse at each end to keep it secure.
  • Starting at your original dot, cut your fabric as shown (sorry it’s a little blurry)
mitred corner
  • Repeat for each corner.  Unfold your corners.  I use a letter opener to push my corner points out to make them crisp and sharp.
  • For my first try at this, I then sewed my folds down so very nicely.  DON’T DO THAT.  I found that it was best to wait until you’ve put your back stitch in so that you can hide all your loose threads.  

Add a backstitch to your napkins:

  • Using your disappearing ink mark, make a mark every 1/2″ along one side of your fabric.  This ink disappears very quickly, so you’ll only be able to do one side at a time.
  • Thread your needle with about 2 3/4 to 3 yards of your pearl cotton.  You will want the thread to be double, so tie the 2 ends together.  This length of the thread will allow you to put your backstitch along 2 of the edges.  You’ll repeat for the other 2 edges, but the thread was too long to have just one piece.
  • I put a backstitch along the folded edge of my napkin, but you could use a blanket stitch if you’d prefer that look.
  • If you aren’t familiar with the backstitch, it’s very simple.  Come up from the back of your fabric and out point number 1.  Then go in point number 2 and out point number 3.  You will then go back in point number 1 and out point number 4. From point 4 you’ll go in at 3 and out at 5.  Get it?
Illustrating the backstitch
  • When you reach the end of the thread, tie it off and start again until you’ve gone completely around the napkin.
  • The only stitch you’ll need to know for the edge I did is the single crochet.  
  • Work 5 single crochets (sc) in each 1/2″ section of your backstitch.  By jamming the 5th one in there, you create a little scallop.  My original plan was to work something a bit more detailed, but in figuring it out, I liked the look of the very simple scallop.  
  • If you’d prefer something other than this simple border, there are many variations of crochet edging out there and no rules, so get creative!

Finish your napkin with a crochet edge:

  • Once done with your crochet edge, tie off and trim all your loose edges.
  • Press seam down and stitch a top stitch all the way around.  
  • Grab your prettiest tumbler and pour yourself a scotch, even if you don’t drink it, just to see how pretty it looks!
  • Embroidering an initial in the corner would be a great touch, especially if given as a gift.  

I’m thinking of spending some time at my sewing machine and whipping up a bunch of these DIY cocktail napkins as gifts this year.  We’ll be traveling overseas this summer and doing the edge work will be a great way to spend the time on the long plane and train trips.  So family…guess what you’re getting this year!

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pin showing linen cocktail napkin with crochet edge
pin showing linen cocktail napkin with crochet edge

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  1. susie q makes

    May 31, 2015 at 8:16 am

    Thanks for sharing the story of your grandmother. It was very touching. Thanks for sharing your crocheted border pattern. I too make cloth napkins for my family and my son’s family. I usually make them to coordinate with the current holiday and now I can add a simple crocheted border. Thanks again.

    • lynn

      May 31, 2015 at 12:21 pm

      Hi Susie Q! I’m so glad you enjoyed it. I miss my grandmother on a regular basis, but so glad I have this link with her. She left a strong impression on my family, even my children who never met her. I think I’ll follow your lead and make some napkins for Christmas this year! Hadn’t thought of that. Enjoy the day and thanks for taking the time to comment.


  2. Echo

    June 13, 2015 at 9:45 am

    These really are lovely! Thank you for sharing this tutorial at the #SmallVictoriesSundayLinkup!

    • lynn

      June 16, 2015 at 7:06 am

      Thanks Echo, I really enjoyed making them and am anxious to make more for gifts.

  3. Amy @Home & Farm Sense

    August 1, 2015 at 4:39 pm

    These are absolutely beautiful! Can’t wait to try it!!

    • lynn

      August 1, 2015 at 5:38 pm

      Thanks Amy! I’d love for you to show what you make!

  4. Alayna @AlaynasCreations

    August 7, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    I always wondered how they attached the crochet edges to things like baby burp clothes (that one was popular when I had my kids), now I know. Great tutorial. Thanks for sharing with us at the #HomeMattersParty

  5. Therese

    September 1, 2015 at 10:39 am

    Lovely! and thanks for sharing the detailed description. Unfortunately, you may not be able to do your handiwork on planes. All kinds of needles are forbidden! I used to make frills for towels during long flights. No more!!

    • lynn

      September 1, 2015 at 12:10 pm

      I did just return from my international flights and am happy to report that I was allowed all my sewing stuff! I had purchased FAA approved scissors and had no issue with them. Funnily enough, my crochet hook caught the attention of the German security. They deferred to higher management and I was allowed the ever so dangerous crochet hook on the plane.So, don’t give up on doing your handiwork on long flights!

  6. Wendy

    January 11, 2016 at 11:09 pm

    These napkins are so pretty! Thank you for entering this in #ThePinterestGame — good luck and we hope to see you next week!

    • lynn

      February 26, 2016 at 5:29 pm

      Thanks Wendy and sorry for the delayed response. I just discovered my SPAM folder! Yikes.

  7. Sandra

    January 13, 2016 at 7:46 pm

    This is a lovely project! I have my mother’s sewing machine and haven’t used it in years. Making napkins would be a great way to get started again.

    • lynn

      January 13, 2016 at 8:26 pm

      Hi Sandra, I’m using my grandmother’s sewing machine that I’ve had for at least 25 years…makes me have a connection to her every time I use it. And since I really enjoy using cloth napkins, makes much sense for me to make my own. Thanks for stopping by to visit today.


  8. Cassie @ Little Red Window

    January 14, 2016 at 9:36 am

    These napkins are so gorgeous, I am in love! Thanks for linking up with The DIY Collective, come back and visit us again next week! xo! Cassie

    • lynn

      January 14, 2016 at 7:00 pm

      Hi Cassie, you are so sweet. They are truly one of my most favorite projects, but then again, I just really do love nice linen and fabric napkins. I’ll be back next week. Thanks for visiting and enjoy your Thursday evening.

      Hugs, Lynn

  9. Nikki Frank-Hamilton

    January 15, 2016 at 9:20 pm

    Lynn, like I said, you’ve got mad skills! From commandeering the broken bench, redoing it, knitting, crocheting, sewing (even if it’s on an old machine), baking, cooking, bartending! LOL My friend you amaze me. I love these cocktail napkins and the crochet edging really sets them above the norm! Gorgeous!

    • lynn

      January 17, 2016 at 7:40 am

      Once again Nikki, your words seem to give me super powers! But hey, I’ll always take them. It’s that whole “mind over matter” thing…right? And I must tell you that these napkin rank up there with some of my favorite creations…so simple, yet the edging add a little ‘je ne sais quoi’ (high school French coming in handy!).
      Wishing you a happy Sunday!

      Hugs, Lynn

  10. Debrashoppeno5

    January 16, 2016 at 8:04 am

    I love this post as I enjoy sewing but can’t crochet for the life of me. My mother and aunt did all of those things so your photo caught my eye. Your napkin tutorial is right on target. .

    • lynn

      January 16, 2016 at 2:44 pm

      Hi Debra, I taught myself to crochet solely to be able to do this border. It really is quite easy. I encourage you to give it a try…you’ll love the result!

  11. cindy

    January 21, 2016 at 12:48 pm

    Your napkins might have caught my eye, but your story touched my heart:) Those napkins are gorgeous, and I wish I would’ve learned how to crochet. My grandmother is 92 years old, and she’s been crocheting since she was 6! I so envy your beautiful handiwork:) Have a marvelous day, Lynn!

    • lynn

      January 22, 2016 at 1:49 pm

      Hi Cindy, thanks so much for your sweet words. No doubt you have also been blessed by having your grandmother in your life. Really appreciate you stopping by today and wishing you a great weekend.


  12. Katie

    January 25, 2016 at 9:06 pm

    These are SO pretty – I just love beautiful cloth napkins. Even though I could never make these I really enjoy reading your tutorial on how to make these. Found you at Share it, thanks for posting this!

    • lynn

      January 26, 2016 at 3:51 pm

      Hi Katie…If I can do it, I know you can too. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your kind words. Best wishes for a great Tuesday!


  13. Kathleen

    April 29, 2020 at 1:17 pm

    Once again you amaze me, is there anything you cannot do? I think I want to be you when I grow up! I adore these napkins and would love to learn how to make them! They are on my “someday” list!

    • lynn

      May 1, 2020 at 8:56 am

      Added to our list!

  14. Holly Gillum

    April 26, 2021 at 12:20 pm

    I am a beginning knitter and a “want-to-be” crocheter, but I’m left handed and scared to jump in. (I knit right handed and will crochet…very slowly…the same!) I thought these might be an easy start as I have some idea of how a single stitch works. However, I can’t figure out how to get the crochet on the back-stitch loop. Can you refer me to a video to show me how this is done? I may just have to play with a sample, but I’d rather learn the “right way” than do something veterans realize isn’t correct.

    • lynn

      April 28, 2021 at 9:50 am

      Hi Holly, I apologize! I thought I had answered your question already.

      I tried to send photo from another project that I hope will help you see where to put your crochet hook under the backstitch, but the email keeps getting returned. Email me at [email protected] and I’ll reply with the photo. If that doesn’t help, let me know and I’ll see if I can help more. That was one of my very early projects and I am afraid I didn’t take as many photos as I should have.

      But in a nutshell, you slip the crochet hook under the long back stitch across the top of your work.

      Let me know if this works,




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