News From The Nest, July 14
Good Morning, from…Durham, North Carolina.
It seems like I’ve been saying this frequently lately, but ‘Geez! Has it been a week!!’
Refill your coffee or tea cup and settle in. Not only is this my personal saga, but I mean for it to serve as a PSA for everyone. And it’s a reminder that life will surely send its challenges; the only way to survive is to continue to bob and weave!
So, last Monday, we were in Newport, Rhode Island, for the funeral of Terry’s best friend. We flew in on Sunday and about three hours after we landed, as we were gathered around the table at our friend’s home just chatting and reminiscing, I all of a sudden felt like someone came up behind me and put a fishbowl over my head. Voices were somewhat garbled and echoey, especially mine, and my head felt very full. I assumed I needed to pop my ears, which I did continuously, but nothing changed.
I have been deaf in my left ear since childhood, but it was my right ear that was giving me problems now. There was a nurse at the gathering who suggested I try Afrin nasal spray and gave me a few Guaifenesin tablets to help with congestion. I did that, and on Monday, the day of the viewing, my head felt better and I could hear better, but I had lost my voice.
I kept up with the Guaifenesin and Afrin, and on Tuesday, for the Funeral, I was completely recovered. I was thrilled to participate in the memories shared about our friend, Rich, and reconnect with folks we hadn’t seen in years. Terry and I were able to get downtown and enjoy a delightful dinner and walk around Newport, where I spent a bit of my youth.
We headed to the airport early Wednesday morning for our flight home and I noticed when I awoke that my head felt a little congested and my right ear was feeling stopped up, making it difficult to hear. Unfortunately, I had used the two Guaifenesin tablets given to me, but kept up the Afrin. From the airport, I called my ENT’s office, who, given my ongoing ear issues in my left ear, has been my doctor since we’ve lived in Wilmington, 23 years. I was told the earliest appointment I could get was in September. I argued with the scheduler that I needed to be seen sooner. She sent me to the nurse, to whom I left a voicemail sharing my symptoms and asked her to speak to my doc to see if they could get me in sooner than September. I never heard back.
For reasons that don’t matter, once we landed, we had a four-hour drive home. By the time we arrived home at five on Wednesday, I could tell I was having an even harder time hearing in my right ear, and there was a constant buzzing sound, like a muffled vacuum cleaner was working in there.
When I woke up on Thursday morning, I was completely deaf in both ears. Talk about unsettling. I sent my ENT’s office an email at 5:30 that morning, sharing what was going on, and requested a work-in appointment. I said I’d gladly sit in the waiting area all day until there was time for me. I also sent a message to my primary care doctor’s office, outlining the situation and requesting that they help me get an appointment with my ENT or any other ENT in town. At that point, I didn’t care who I saw, but I knew I needed to see someone.
I never heard back from my ENT, but thankfully, my primary care doc’s office saw me at 1 p.m. that day. After examining me, he called my ENT and shared his concerns and I was able to get an appointment for 9 a.m. the next day, Friday. He also sent me who with Prednisone and an anti-viral, just to cover all bases.
Friday was a dark day. After going through an examination and hearing test, I was told by my ENT that I had SSNHL (Sudden Sensorineural Hearing Loss) in my right ear. It’s an idiopathic condition, meaning they have no idea why it happens. As I said, I have been deaf in my left ear since childhood; I don’t have the bones or infrastructure in that ear to make sound. But, the hearing test showed that I actually heard better in that ear! And because neither ear worked, all I could hear in my head was the whooshing of my blood flow and heartbeat. Very unsettling.
My doctor told me that the only potential cure was a heavy dose of steroids for two weeks, and even with that, the chance I would get my hearing back is only 40%. At that news, I broke down crying and didn’t stop for much of the day. All I could think of was all the experiences I would miss out on and just how small my world instantly became.
HERE’S THE PSA OF IT ALL: We came home and immediately began educating ourselves on SSNHL. We learned that any hope of recovery is dependent on starting steroids immediately. The sooner you start, the better, which does bode well for me. If treatment isn’t started within TWO WEEKS, the window has effectively closed; the hearing mechanism involved has been without oxygen/blood supply for too long and can’t recover. We learned that this condition goes undiagnosed much too frequently because 1) folks assume that their head is just stopped up and don’t seek medical attention, and 2) docs don’t identify the symptoms in a timely manner. We also learned that recently, there has been some success with treatment in a hyperbaric chamber.
If I weren’t already deaf in my left ear, I might have waited longer to push for an appointment. And my primary care doctor is my hero! You would have thought that the ENT office staff would have been more attuned to my symptoms, but they weren’t! But my primary care doc recognized the potential issue and got me in.
Bottom line, if you feel something isn’t right, you need to advocate for yourself! Don’t let yourself get pushed off. And if you wake up with sudden hearing loss, don’t assume you just have a congested head!
As of today, I would say I’ve regained about 40% to 50% of my hearing over the last three days on steroids, and so I am feeling optimistic. If this is all I get back, I think I can still enjoy all that the world has to offer. I would happily consider any hearing aid options out there. BUT, I am at Duke University Hospital this morning for a consultation with the Hyperbaric Oxygen Chamber center to see if I would qualify for treatment. If I do qualify, I will start this afternoon. My understanding is that it will be ten days of treatment, 90 minutes a day. We packed up Elsa and Peep and are settled in a hotel room to see what the week holds. So, all prayers and good juju are welcome! Send them my way.
Phew, that was long! Thanks if you stayed for the whole tome!
Before we left home yesterday, we picked zinnias and tomatoes! While I’m bummed I haven’t been home to enjoy my zinnia bouquets, I shared them with my very best neighbors and my mom before we left. We shared a few tomatoes, but the rest made the trip with us so we can enjoy them this week.
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From the Knit + Crochet Studio
Hosting just got a whole lot prettier with these beautiful fabric cocktail napkins. Whether you’re aiming for casual elegance or just want to use up fabric scraps, this simple sewing project is beginner-friendly and totally customizable. Add a simple crochet border or not! I share how to add the crochet border, if you are so inclined. They’re a lovely way to add a personal, eco-friendly touch to your next gathering.
Keep your projects (and sanity) organized with this printable knitting journal and organizer. It includes everything from yarn inventory and swatch cards to WIP logs and gift checklists—ideal for keeping track of what you’ve made, what you’re planning, and what you’ve promised to knit but forgotten about (we’ve all been there). My favorite part of the organizer is the yarn inventory section!
This knit potholder pattern uses the linen stitch to create a thick, durable potholder with great texture and structure. It’s an ideal project for beginners wanting to learn a new stitch—or for anyone looking to stock their kitchen (or gift drawer) with something handmade and useful.
If you’re craving a cozy, meditative knit, this linen stitch blanket pattern might be just the thing. The linen stitch creates a beautiful woven texture, and the pattern is simple enough to knit while watching a show or chatting with a friend. It’s one of those soothing projects you’ll want to come back to again and again.
From the Kitchen
When the weather heats up, these watermelon vodka cocktails are a refreshing way to cool down. Made with fresh watermelon juice, vodka, and a splash of lime, it’s light, bright, and easy to batch for a crowd—perfect for summer get-togethers.
This jalapeño cheese spread is the ultimate appetizer: creamy, spicy, and ridiculously easy to throw together. Whether you’re spreading it on crackers, stuffing it into celery, or serving it alongside cocktails, it’s the kind of recipe that disappears quickly—and gets requested often.
Whether you’ve run out of Old Bay or just want a DIY version without a trip to the store, this list of Old Bay substitutes and seasoning recipe has you covered. It breaks down the flavor profile so you can whip up your own blend that tastes just right on seafood, fries, or even popcorn.
It’s blueberry season and this blueberry chamomile jam is a beautifully simple preserve is a great way to enjoy the flavor year-round. The chamomile adds a delicate floral note that plays so nicely with the fruit, perfect for spooning onto toast, biscuits, or even a soft cheese plate.
For something a little more versatile, this blueberry syrup is summer in a jar. Whether you drizzle it over pancakes, stir it into cocktails, or swirl it into yogurt, it’s a simple way to stretch blueberry season just a bit longer.
Need a quick, satisfying bread option? These sourdough flatbreads are made with discard and cook up in minutes on the stovetop—no rising, no fuss. They’re soft, flexible, and perfect for wrapping, dipping, or scooping up whatever’s for dinner.
From the Arts + Crafts Room
There’s something delightfully nostalgic about weaving loom potholders, and this post walks you through the process with updated tips and tricks. Whether you’re crafting with kids or just looking for a satisfying, colorful project, these little squares are fun, functional, and full of charm—and they make great gifts, too.
If your bed could use a finishing touch, this DIY bed skirt with box pleats might be the answer. No sewing machine required—just fabric, pins, and a little time. The result is a tailored, custom look that hides under-bed storage and adds polish to your bedroom without a lot of fuss.
From the Garden
This is the MOST POPULAR POST I’VE EVER PUBLISHED, for good reason, especially if you are tired of weeds but not wild about harsh chemicals. This homemade weed killer is a simple, effective solution made with everyday ingredients. The post breaks down what works, what doesn’t, and how to use it safely—so you can tackle the weeds without harming your garden or your conscience.
In the House and Home
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by clutter but not sure where to start, these 10 decluttering questions are incredibly grounding. They help you pause and reflect with intention—making it easier to let go of the stuff that no longer serves you and reclaim some calm in your home.
Well, today will be an interesting day! Keep your fingers crossed that I’m a good match for the Hyperbaric treatment and that they feel it could help my hearing recovery. And I’ll be wishing for you that you have a wonderful week, that you are flexible in your bobbing and weaving, and that life is a little gentle on you this week.
Until next week,
Dear Lynn,
I‘m very sorry to read about your hearing loss. You are being the best patient that you can be! Hooray for you!! You will get through this with flying colors.
I would cross that ENT off my list, if I were you. Also, I would research all possible methods to maintain communication. You don’t mention this, but perhaps you have already learned to lip read, etc. One of the dangers from hearing loss is social isolation, which leads to cognitive decline.
I wish I could give you a hug! You give so much to your community. Now we are here to lift you up.
Love, Emilie
Good Morning Emilie!
Thanks so much for your kind and encouraging message.
I do read lips…learned that many years ago. And I will definitely consider hearing aids if I don’t get most of my hearing back. There is too much I want to hear and do to be limited by my hearing issues.
As an update, I had my first Hyperbaric Oxygen Chamber ‘dive’ yesterday and came through with flying colors! As far as I know, I will be back every day for the next 10 days for a 2 hour dive. I can’t tell if it has made an improvement yet, but I have to have faith that it will, even a little. Since I’m already deaf in my left ear, I want to get back every iota of my previous hearing in my right ear. All the literature we’ve read is that the combination of steroids and hyperbaric treatments work better together than either one alone.
Thanks again for your support! It really means alot!
Lynn, you most definitely have my best wishes for a full recovery. I am so sorry that you have to deal with all of this along with health care difficulties. Keep your head up and persevere!
Oh my gosh…I can’t imagine the panicky feeling you must have had. And to have so much trouble with a doctor you’ve been seeing for years and trusted I’m sure made it even worse. Praying for your recovery and love your wonderful attitude❣️
Good luck with everything, I admire and appreciate that you put together this newsletter despite every thing. Look forward to next week
Peace
Dona from Michigan
Oh my dear friend Lynn! I’m so so very sorry this happened to you and am praying that you find FULL 100% recovery in your ear and maybe even a miracle of something in your left. Praying you are approved for the treatment this week — thank the Lord you acted on it so quickly and I am grateful for your primary too! I have had many issues similar in the last few years with my ears and have gone round and round with my ENT, to no improvement, so I am tucking this in the back of my brain. Praying for you my friend!
thinking about you and hoping for a full recovery asap! and maybe you’ll get your 20/20 vision of your youth back as well! (my FIL did in his 70s when he did hyperbaric chamber–it was amazing!).
Lynn, thank you for being so open and candid. I believe we learn so much from others and if we don’t share or ask questions we don’t learn. Prayers are being said for you today and throughout the week. Sounds like you are in good hands and where you need to be! Thinking of you. 😊
Lynn,
They say God only gives us what we can handle and I struggle with the reasons. That being said, we still have faith and hope and I send you all my prayers and healing vibes and glad you have a tribe with you for support. Thanks for all you do. I so enjoy your newsletters and recipes, talented tutorials and helpful advice.
Best wishes,
Lisa in Wisconsin
Hi Lynn – I’m so sorry to hear (pun not intended) about your hearing loss…..hopeful that you are a candidate for the hyperbaric chamber! Just a quick note for you on the weed killer. I had a very difficult time getting the salt to totally dissolve in the in vinegar. I ended up splitting the vinegar between 2 containers and mixing 1/2 cup of salt in each. Shaking it for a bit and et voilà….all salt totally dissolved. I have also made the linen stitch blanket and am now making another one for my granddaughter as a wedding gift.
Lynn,
Praying that you will be a match for the treatment and things will go well and back to your old self soon. Sad to say the least when doctors won’t listen to what their patients tell them, and not getting back to you is totally unacceptable.
Dear Lynn,
So sorry to read of the ear problem you are having. I pray the treatment you are having will restore your hearing soon.
Take care.
I’m so happy to hear you are getting better! What a nightmare you’ve gone through. Hoping this note from one of your readers reminds you of what wonderful gifts you bring to the world. – Andrea
So sorry to hear about your hearing issues! Sending prayers from Arizona your way!
Oh Lynn! You are in my thoughts and prayers and hoping for a full recovery. Take care and hopefully a gentle rest of the week for you. Sending good vibes and hugs, Pam
I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers that this procedure is what you needed for your recovery Pat
I’m sending big hugs and hoping you continue to improve!
You are one dedicated woman, Lynn! I can’t believe you got the newsletter out in the middle of your medical crisis! That is so scary and having to do battle with the medical system doesn’t help. Thank you for all you do and I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
How awful for you, Lynn! So sorry to read about your struggles. Wishing you all the very best for a quick and complete recovery. Sending love from down-under! Kathryn
Special Blessings to you so that your health issue can be completely resolved! Take Care
My goodness Lynn! That is quite a horrific ordeal you are going through. I guess the ENT’s receptionist is the gatekeeper at his office. My guess is she never even passed a message along to him. In my book, that makes her a bad person. I suppose she’s been told to do that, but geez., had she passed the message to him, he probably would’ve said to fit you in. I think the next time you see him, I’d be informing him. He could be unaware. Sometimes I think people in a position like that feel they’re the one that holds the keys! Anyways..sounds like you have a very good doctor. And I’m happy that they were able to figure out a diagnosis so fast too. I would be devastated to lose my hearing completely (it ain’t good right now..lol), but the simplest sounds give me the greatest pleasure of all. The birds singing, frogs singing and the wind. If I couldn’t hear those 3 things, I’m not sure what life would be like for me. I guess we take a lot for granted. Our healthcare isn’t very good now either. It’s like the doctors don’t seem to care anymore and everything is such a long wait if you need to see a specialist or have certain tests done. Sometimes I feel that when a doctors office gets a call or an emergency situation, they weigh the pros and cons of who to see. The young person or the older person. I think the young win out! Anyways Lynn, I hope with all my heart your hearing will steadily improve for you. I will be thinking about you! ❤️
Hello Lynn, I hope your hearing problem will resolve quickly. I send you from Belgium all my positive vibes for your healing. Courage to you.
Friendly.
Michèle